The brainless doormat and other myths
Verfasst: Do 4. Dez 2014, 00:03
Ich fand diesen Artikel vor sehr langer Zeit - geschrieben von einer kajira names kaylee. Leider ist ihre Internetseite nicht mehr auffindbar, nur der Text für sich ist auf anderen Seiten kopiert zu finden.
Ich selbst habe ihn noch in meinem Fundus, und da die Verfasserin nicht mehr existent ist, dürfte ich keine Urheberrechte verletzen:
The Brainless Doormat and other myths
Well, my Master wouldn't want a brainless doormat."
Interpretation: "I will argue a point even when he says "Enough", because I have to prove I am right."
"If slavery is about being mindless robots, then count me out."
Interpretation: "There are times when I will not obey, and this is my excuse."
kaylee often wonders why obedience is considered akin to mindless behavior. This girl didn't leave her brain at the door when she became someone's property; she is every bit as intelligent as she always has been. He uses her intelligence as much as he uses her body, or her skills, or her emotions, when it pleases him. Her conversations with Master involve a bit more substance than the occasional "Yes, Master" and "As you wish, Master". Although if that is what he commands, kaylee reduces her verbal interactions to him. She is here to serve him.
This girl is strong willed, passionate, fiery, and high spirited. He chose to own her, knowing the kind of person she is. He simply owns a strong woman, who finds her greatest joys at his feet. She relishes the fact that even with her own inner strength; he brings her to her knees before him. He challenges her to strive to meet his bar of excellence; he does not keep lowering the bar to settle for less than what he wants. But while he does not break her spirit, he allows her to be playful and if it is not appropriate, he expects her to cease that behavior. It is, after all, about her being pleasing to him.
But because she puts him first in all things... that does not make her a doormat. However, if he chose to wipe his feet on her and use her as one, she would gladly lay still and revel in the chance to serve him that way. She would beg him to be allowed the chance to be his doormat.
If he wants her to be silent and curl quietly on the floor for his feet to rest upon, she does so. If by being obedient and docile, others consider her a doormat, let them frown upon it all they want- it cannot change who she is deep inside.
This girl is his possession, and proud of that. kaylee is neither brainwashed, nor mindless. And anyone who has met her knows she is not lacking in self assurance or esteem. She just hopes to be able to serve him in any way he allows her, no matter how small. And that is where she finds her own happiness, her peace, her serenity, in her service to him.
This is not a sign of weakness by any means. If kaylee was weak, she would take the easy way out, and fight her own nature in order to live a life that is simpler and provides more comforts and rights than slavery does. She would succumb to society's pressures to be an independent entity. She would not search deep within the internal strength to bare herself, vulnerable and exposed, to others. She would hide behind an external shield of false power, and lock away her soul. She would deny her personal accountability. She would not lift her head high after being corrected, and take it to heart as a lesson, instead of getting defensive.
This is not abusive. Nor is it abusive to have him holding all the rights in the relationship. It is not abusive to be treated as property, rather than his peer. Since being owned does mean he has the right to do with kaylee as he pleased, she took a very long time making sure she trusted him with her life. That's where it helps to have common sense and intelligence, because it truly was the last choice she made that matters.
Her owner doesn't want blind obedience... he wants her eyes wide open as she surrenders to him, so that she can truly understand what she is giving up, and to what depth he controls her.
Ich selbst habe ihn noch in meinem Fundus, und da die Verfasserin nicht mehr existent ist, dürfte ich keine Urheberrechte verletzen:
The Brainless Doormat and other myths
Well, my Master wouldn't want a brainless doormat."
Interpretation: "I will argue a point even when he says "Enough", because I have to prove I am right."
"If slavery is about being mindless robots, then count me out."
Interpretation: "There are times when I will not obey, and this is my excuse."
kaylee often wonders why obedience is considered akin to mindless behavior. This girl didn't leave her brain at the door when she became someone's property; she is every bit as intelligent as she always has been. He uses her intelligence as much as he uses her body, or her skills, or her emotions, when it pleases him. Her conversations with Master involve a bit more substance than the occasional "Yes, Master" and "As you wish, Master". Although if that is what he commands, kaylee reduces her verbal interactions to him. She is here to serve him.
This girl is strong willed, passionate, fiery, and high spirited. He chose to own her, knowing the kind of person she is. He simply owns a strong woman, who finds her greatest joys at his feet. She relishes the fact that even with her own inner strength; he brings her to her knees before him. He challenges her to strive to meet his bar of excellence; he does not keep lowering the bar to settle for less than what he wants. But while he does not break her spirit, he allows her to be playful and if it is not appropriate, he expects her to cease that behavior. It is, after all, about her being pleasing to him.
But because she puts him first in all things... that does not make her a doormat. However, if he chose to wipe his feet on her and use her as one, she would gladly lay still and revel in the chance to serve him that way. She would beg him to be allowed the chance to be his doormat.
If he wants her to be silent and curl quietly on the floor for his feet to rest upon, she does so. If by being obedient and docile, others consider her a doormat, let them frown upon it all they want- it cannot change who she is deep inside.
This girl is his possession, and proud of that. kaylee is neither brainwashed, nor mindless. And anyone who has met her knows she is not lacking in self assurance or esteem. She just hopes to be able to serve him in any way he allows her, no matter how small. And that is where she finds her own happiness, her peace, her serenity, in her service to him.
This is not a sign of weakness by any means. If kaylee was weak, she would take the easy way out, and fight her own nature in order to live a life that is simpler and provides more comforts and rights than slavery does. She would succumb to society's pressures to be an independent entity. She would not search deep within the internal strength to bare herself, vulnerable and exposed, to others. She would hide behind an external shield of false power, and lock away her soul. She would deny her personal accountability. She would not lift her head high after being corrected, and take it to heart as a lesson, instead of getting defensive.
This is not abusive. Nor is it abusive to have him holding all the rights in the relationship. It is not abusive to be treated as property, rather than his peer. Since being owned does mean he has the right to do with kaylee as he pleased, she took a very long time making sure she trusted him with her life. That's where it helps to have common sense and intelligence, because it truly was the last choice she made that matters.
Her owner doesn't want blind obedience... he wants her eyes wide open as she surrenders to him, so that she can truly understand what she is giving up, and to what depth he controls her.